friends

Sometimes it seam's people don't understand the importance of maintaining friendships and the work that goes into them..We have friends who we use as sounding boards when we have issue's and when we have problem's there our date's out when we have no date to speak of yet we for get like any relationship they need time, they need love they need attention because when they don't have that how do u help them grow and become what ever there meant to be. Are friends the one's who we call to bitch to or are they the one's who are there when were falling apart...Are they their with smile's or only with tear's. mnay people believe friendship's are effortless the truth is with out effort there will be no reward.

Home vs. house

It's funny right now pookie and I may have a chance to rent a house and It's an interesting idea, we've been together for almost nine years and with that the life we have built together and what that means's to us. I was taught by my mother that when u 1st move into a new house u have to cook something in the kitchen. The reason how else to you turn a house into a home with out warming it's heart 1st.
It does not matter whether children are with in the home or not but whether it's heart is warm, so many people seem to believe that your "Home" needs to be perfect not a thing out of place but that being the case perfection is an illusion one that at time's we need to shatter to make the reality what it needs to be...near perfection and in many case's that's better than most.

Health

Weather it's physical health or mental health gay men have to remember to take care of our self's, we in someways skate the world of the in between of both masculine and femine and based on that we have a responsibility to our self's and to others to always take care of our self's to the best of our power...we are the shaman's of the world and as such we need to be in charge of the spirt and the soul of the world as we see it to be..

Confidence

The funny thing about confidence is finding the inner power to be strong and sure of your self. Mo matter what your going through no matter what's happening to you. Now the funny thing about being self confident is not being cocky,however how do you find the balance with in your self to be true to what you are and what u will be.

plantet of the homo's

Some wonder were homo's come from ,are we grown born that way, or do we learn it, the answer we come from the Plant of the homo's it's a world called fabulous 1 in the galaxy of sparkle, we are located next to the plant de-po birth place of the lesbian,s, however what is wonderful about our worlds is you can love whom ever u want with no judgement to hurt no pain, no one taking your love as a weapon to use against u as a way to make u feel like less of a person. children are loved and cared for and whether they are gay,lesbians or humans they are never jugged and always loved....doesn't this sound like a dream world to bad we can't be on a world more like this....maybe we'll learn one day.

Dreams

It's funny that thinking sometimes when were younger we have so many dreams, I mean we dream, dreams that we never think can't happen. Whats really funny about dreams is that when we get older we forget it's o.k to still have those dreams. sure what we do is change them to make them more to our liking and ability but we still have to remember we have them and it's ok to do what we can to make them happen.

I dream of writing a book and getting married of have a sweet townhouse or maybe a little house with pookie and more than anything else just being happy. Of staring my own design firm and going back to school of just being healthy..Dreams are like that like the sweetest candy the coldest drink or better yet the most magical kiss. They become real when we put in the magic needed to make them happen as only we can.

relationship's

it's very funny to me the reaction that "straight people" have to a "Gay Relationship" their are all kinds of idea's that seem to come out to what a relationship is and what are the rules to one, however who makes these rules. I am tired of people saying church, or a "real relationship has to be one that can produce children. That alone will take sooo many couple's out of the equation. I wish I understood why we can't be happy for one another and just be glade that people have found the gift of love. Let's face it that's what love is a gift not a right and if u have been lucky to find it be blessed.