Wednesday, January 19, 2011

The Little things mean the most, but the big things are fabulous!!




I am in the second part of this journey with pookie as we get ready to close the chapter of our life that is California and getting ready to start the new chapter that is Florida...

What's so exciting is that we are doing this together at what seems a time in our life that we have both strength and courage not only with in our self's but what we give each other....

What I find right now is that pookie and I are finding new ways to show each other how much me love each other, how important we find each other in new ways...the distance we have right now between us means that we need to think, we need to make sure not to take each other for granted..

At time's when you have your lover with you it's easy to get to the point when you might not always go that extra mile to make sure your lover,partner, husband,wife knows no matter what that they are loved care for and respected.. It's funny to me that people will bitch and complain all the time about what there "better half" does not do...why don't they ever bother to tell what they do, do...

The other part I find very funny is how many people seem to only be out for what they can get from the other person and I wonder why is that..I mean if you have found love why does it have to come with a dollar sign and a dollar value.

The best things I have ever gotten from pookie are not things done with huge dollar value, but things that are done with heart and with soul...Pookie has told me he would do anything for me to make me happy and take care of me, but the thing he still seems to never believe is that one of the best gifts I get from him is to love him and hold him and take care of him..it means to me that I am taking care of my man and making sure to make sure he knows all the time he is my man...

The little things pookie does, yes they mean the most but the day I get my engagement ring will be a day of fabulousness for me. not because he spent allot, not because it's got huge jewels but because he gave it to me....My journey even after all these years is just beginning with this amazing man and I can't wait to see what the next chapter holds.....

1 comment:

  1. This was so sweet and so very true. With every post on facebook and in your blog you continue to stregthen my beliefe in true love! I am, as always, so very happy for you both. Before you know it you two will be living in the same zip code once again! <3

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